A Guide to Detangling Natural Hair Without Shedding Tears (or Hair)

Detangling natural hair can feel like wrestling a python. One wrong move and snap – a strand breaks free. But fear not, fellow naturals! With the right approach, detangling can be a relaxing ritual instead of a hair-raising ordeal.

The Detangling Dilemma: Why Does It Feel Like a Battle?

Our natural hair, with its beautiful coils, kinks, and curls, is prone to tangles. Think of it like a playful puppy – full of energy and prone to getting its leash tangled.

• Shrinkage: Our curls shrink, which can cause the ends to intertwine and form knots.

• Dryness: Dry hair is brittle and more susceptible to breakage.

• Product Buildup: Product buildup can weigh down the hair and create friction, leading to tangles.

• Protective Styles: While protective styles like braids and twists are amazing, they can sometimes lead to tangles at the roots or ends when taken down.

The Detangling Commandments (and How to Break Them Gently)

Before we go into the detangling commandments, look at this webinar video that teaches you step-by-step how to detangle and wash your hair. Watch now.

1. Thou Shalt Not Detangle Dry Hair: This is the cardinal sin of natural hair care! Dry hair is brittle and prone to breakage. Always detangle on wet or damp hair.

2. Thou Shalt Start from the Ends: Resist the urge to yank that comb through your hair from root to tip. Begin at the very ends of your hair and gently work your way up.

3. Thou Shalt Use the "Slip" Method:

• Condition Deeply: After washing, apply a generous amount of conditioner.

• Embrace the "Oiled Fingers" Technique: Apply a few drops of your favorite oil (like coconut oil, jojoba oil, or sweet almond oil) to your fingers. This adds extra slip and helps to glide through the knots.

• Detangle with Your Fingers First: Gently work your fingers through your hair to loosen major knots before using a comb.

• Thou Shalt Section Thy Hair: Divide your hair into smaller sections. This makes the detangling process more manageable and reduces the risk of pulling and breakage.

4. Thou Shalt Section Thy Hair: Divide your hair into smaller sections. This makes the detangling process more manageable and reduces the risk of pulling and breakage.

5. Thou Shalt Use the Right Tools:

• Wide-Tooth Comb: This is your best friend for detangling. Avoid fine-toothed combs or brushes, as they can snag and pull on your hair.

• Detangling Brush: Consider investing in a detangling brush specifically designed for natural hair.

6. Thou Shalt Be Patient: Detangling takes time. Don't rush the process. Take deep breaths, put on some relaxing music, and enjoy the self-care moment.

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Detangling Tips from the Natural Hair Community

• Pre-Poo: Detangle your hair before shampooing. This helps to minimize shedding and breakage during the washing process. See StyldLife's recommended products here.

• Deep Condition Regularly: Deep conditioning treatments provide intense moisture and make detangling a breeze.

• Listen to Your Hair: If you encounter a stubborn knot, don't force it. Gently apply more conditioner or oil and try again later.

• Embrace Protective Styles: Protective styles like braids, twists, and locs minimize manipulation and reduce the risk of tangles.